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Dating these days is not for the faint of heart. Whereas in the past high school would bring couples together, these days many young people are choosing to leave love on the back burner.
The issue is that when people are ready to find someone to love, it’s easier said than done. Between social media and dating sites, there seem to be endless options of available people to meet. This means if someone isn’t quite perfect, or doesn’t reach unrealistic expectations, it’s easy to switch to someone new.
However, if you are looking for love, it’s important not to give up! There are some powerful intercessors to lean on who can provide guidance and inspiration as you navigate the dating world, helping you seek relationships that are grounded in love, respect, and mutual faith.
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St. Raphael the Archangel
St. Raphael is one of the seven archangels and is known as the healer. He plays a prominent role in the Book of Tobit, where he guides Tobias on his journey and helps him find a spouse, Sarah, who is a perfect match for him.
Why useful when dating: St. Raphael is considered the patron saint of happy meetings and matchmaking. His guidance can help you discern true compatibility and foster a relationship based on mutual respect and love. Calling on St. Raphael can also give you patience and wisdom to recognize the right partner when you meet them.
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St. Valentine
You’ll be familiar with St. Valentine, perhaps the best-known saint associated with love and romance. He was a priest in Rome during the 3rd century, who is said to have secretly performed marriages for Christian couples when the Roman Empire banned marriages to boost its army recruitment.
Why useful when dating: As the patron saint of love, young people, and happy marriages, St. Valentine embodies the selfless and enduring nature of love. Seeking his intercession can help you cultivate a loving, committed relationship, and his story reminds you to cherish and protect the bonds of love.
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St. Anne
St. Anne is the mother of the Virgin Mary and the grandmother of Jesus. Little is known about her life from scripture, but she is honored for her role in the Holy Family and her nurturing, maternal qualities.
Why useful when dating: St. Anne is the patron saint of unmarried women and those seeking a spouse. Her life exemplifies faith, patience, and the importance of strong family foundations. Praying to St. Anne can inspire you to seek a relationship that fosters family values and mutual support.
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St. Joseph
The earthly father of Jesus is known for his humility, righteousness, and protective nature. He worked as a carpenter and is often depicted as a devoted family man.
Why useful when dating: As the patron saint of fathers and families, St. Joseph’s example teaches the virtues of kindness, integrity, and dedication. His life shows the importance of being a supportive and loving partner. Turning to St. Joseph can help you find a partner who values these qualities and is committed to building a strong, faithful relationship.
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St. Thérèse of Lisieux
Known as the “Little Flower,” St. Thérèse of Lisieux was a Carmelite nun who lived a short but spiritually rich life in the late 19th century. Her autobiography, Story of a Soul, highlights her “little way” of doing small things with great love.
Why useful when dating: St. Thérèse is the patron saint of missionaries and florists, and she emphasizes the importance of simple, sincere love. Her approach to life and relationships encourages authenticity and the beauty of small acts of kindness. Seeking her intercession can help you cultivate a loving, genuine relationship that grows through everyday acts of love and consideration.
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St. Anthony of Padua
St. Anthony was a Franciscan friar known for his powerful preaching and deep knowledge of scripture. He is often depicted holding the Child Jesus.
Why useful when dating: St. Anthony is the patron saint of lost items and lost people. If you’re feeling a little lost in the dating world, his intercession can help you find your way and guide you to the right person.
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St. Catherine of Siena
St. Catherine was a Dominican tertiary and mystic known for her intense spirituality and influence in the Church. She dedicated her life to prayer and helping others.
Why useful when dating: St. Catherine is the patron saint of single women and those who face difficult choices. Her wisdom and dedication to serving others can inspire you to seek a partner who shares your values and commitment to mutual growth.
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St. John Paul II
St. John Paul II was the pope from 1978 to 2005 and is known for his teachings on love, marriage, and the family. His Theology of the Body addresses the sanctity of human love and relationships.
Why useful when dating: St. John Paul II’s teachings emphasize the importance of love, respect, and mutual dignity in relationships. His insights can help you build a relationship based on deep understanding and spiritual connection.
And today we celebrate...