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Don’t Let the Real Meaning of Christmas Be Overwhelmed by a Misspent Advent

Canonry of St. Leopold - published on 12/05/14

St. John the Baptist shows the way.

Who doesn’t like Christmas: the parties, the songs, the decorations, the Christmas trees, the gifts, and the good cheer? It’s even an antidote to the darkness and the cold!  Never mind that Christmas has come to mean the whole month of December before December 25th! Of course, as it turns out, many people don’t like Christmas – or better, perhaps, feel disappointed – because all the merriment fails to deliver the lasting happiness after which they long. In the rush to gobble down Christmas right after Thanksgiving many find themselves hung-over, emotionally, when Christmas finally arrives. On December 26th, dilapidated Christmas trees are flung out on the curb, gifts, which nobody ever wanted in the first place, force us to wait on long lines in stores we would never otherwise visit to return, resolutions to go on diets start to take form in guilty consciences because of too much food, too much drink, just much, too much, indulging, and finally, no relief has arrived for many whose families are broken, distant and a mockery to the word. The real meaning of Christmas – gentle, still, silent, powerful – is for many overwhelmed by the sound and fury of a misspent Advent.

Christmas, of course, is not really the problem: it’s the misusing of Advent as a season of anticipation (bringing the future partially into the present) instead of observing it as a season of expectation (longing in the present for the future). If we anticipate Christmas by bringing its festivities into Advent, than we will easily arrive at this great feast sated and bored because those (peripheral) festivities – the parties, songs, food and drink, decorations and gifts – are merely ornamentation.  Food and drink disappear into the digestive tract, songs fade, parties cease, gifts may, for a while, please, and cheer tires.

Expectation, not anticipation, sums up, in one word, the antidote to this cycle of disappointment.

St. John the Baptist, whose lifestyle could not be more different from the greedy and gluttonous misuse of Advent (“anticipation”), dedicated his life – body and soul – to God; he held nothing back. Everything else was secondary. He lived in the wilderness to get away from the din and distractions of society and its pretentions. He found God in the raw power of the wilderness, where human pride and personal illusions are stripped away as the Israelites learned during the Exodus and the Exile, and in prophesies of the Old Testament, where his vocation to be “a voice crying out in the wilderness” was indeed foretold.  

He freed himself from the burdens of fashion and food, so that this self-renunciation could gain his proclamation of repentance for the forgiveness of sins a hearing. It may surprise us, but his radical and simple lifestyle made his a compelling and attractive figure that drew many people from countryside and city to listen to him and accept his demanding and unapologetic message of judgment. The voice crying out in the wilderness did not tell people that they were all right or that everything was fine. It shook them up and shocked them: doom was unavoidable unless they should change their ways.  His baptism could serve as an expression of one’s desire to lead a new life; it was no Sacrament, but it was indeed a sign of repentance, of preparation for judgment.

“The Day of the Lord,” the Second Letter of Peter prophecies, will come, and all will be consumed or dissolved by fire (which the Rite of Absolution in the responsory, Libera me, Domine, at the end of Requiem Mass in the Extraordinary Form twice quotes, “dum veneris judicare sæclum per ignem
/as you will come to judge the world through fire”). Similarly, in First Corinthians, St Paul states, “the work of each will come to light, for the Day will disclose it. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire [itself] will test the quality of each one’s work” (1 Cor. 3:13).   Both speak of the fire probing, testing and thereby revealing the true value and meaning of the world and everything done on it.  The warning of judgment in both cases, however, does not declare the inevitability of doom – which, one must concede, is a possible outcome for any of us who choses sin over God – but rather invites us to choose another, better, God-desired outcome, (hence, St. John the Baptist’s proclamation to “repent”), so that at our judgment, the fire will not harm us, but rather reveal us – thanks to grace – to be transformed, sanctified and glorified, ready for the New Creation.

After judgment by fire, St. Peter announces the appearance the New Heavens and the New Earth, where righteousness dwells. The fire has, in some mysterious but complete way, purified all creation from any contaminates and impurities, the injustices and disorders, which now oppress Creation. For those who have placed their lives in God’s hands, by belonging to Jesus Christ, the fire is better understood to be the all-consuming love of God.  How else could we dwell with joy in the presence of this pure love unless we ourselves have been set free from all the self- and other-inflicted wounds and burdens, which have deformed us during our terrestrial sojourn? How else could we share the life of eternal love unless we had totally and completely forgiven ourselves of every shortcoming, failure, mistake, misjudgment and, indeed sin, which God in His mercy had long before forgiven in our baptism, confessions and sincere contrition?  

In light of this, Advent can be both a season of expectation – of longing for the day when will be transformed and dwell with sweet joy in the New Creation – as well as a season of anticipation. By the mercy of God, we can already anticipate the joy and liberation from sin found in the New Heavens and the New Earth after the judgment when we make a good and sincere confession, and then, a worthy Holy Communion.  In so doing, we can honestly concur with the truth that, “Lord, I am not worthy that you should come under my roof…” but then seamlessly add (because He has made us worthy!), with great expectation and longing, “…but only say the word and my soul shall be healed.” 

Prepared for Aleteia by the Canonry of Saint Leopold. Clickhere to learn more about the Canons Regular of St. Augustine.

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